My reason for being
By Luke
Three years ago, my life changed forever when an arteriovenous malformation (AVM) in my cerebellum burst, causing a massive stroke. I was home alone, sitting at my computer, when it happened. My pregnant wife found me unconscious on the floor and called 000 immediately. We don’t know how long I was lying there, but her quick actions likely saved my life.
At the hospital, the doctors placed a shunt in my brain to manage the bleed. They told me I was lucky to be alive—and to not to be in nappies for the rest of my life.
The stroke left me unable to walk, and I relied on using a wheelchair. Memory issues became a daily challenge. But thanks to a solid discharge plan and the unwavering support of my family, I started my new life.
One of the biggest turning points was being referred to a brilliant physiotherapist. He’s been by my side ever since, pushing me to reach milestones I didn’t think were possible. I still see him twice a week, and with his help, I am now walking more or less independently. His dedication extended beyond therapy—he went door-knocking at local businesses to find one willing to give me a chance to volunteer. That opportunity has been transformative, improving not just my confidence but my emotional well-being.
Today, I volunteer at a local radio station, 1 FM, where I organise and curate music for shows. It’s a step toward returning to paid work, which is a big goal of mine in the next few years.
My wife and our three boys are my reason for everything. My youngest son never knew me before the stroke, but as a family, we’ve adapted and just keep moving forward. They are my anchor and my motivation to get the most out of life.
If there’s one piece of advice, I’d share with others navigating recovery, it’s this: keep going, keep being strong, and keep being resilient. There will be ups and downs—we’re only human—but if you have a reason to keep going, hold onto that when times get tough.
My blog is dedicated to my wife Danielle and my three sons "Flynn, Oliver and Henry. I love you!"